2020 was a year of twists and turns but also a lot of baby showers. I was invited to three baby showers and I went to two. This last one was the last straw for me because, I didn’t want to deal with those four dreadful questions.
Are you married?
Do you have children?
Why don’t you have a family?
What are you waiting for?
I didn’t want to deal with those stupid ass questions, so I didn’t go to the last one. I’m 31 years old and I would love to be a wife and mom but I’m not going to start a family with someone that may not be emotionally stable. I would rather be alone than to start a family with an emotionally unavailable man. Oh notice how I said man, people have a tendency to think that since you’re single without real prospects that you’re gay. No.
I love my family and friends, I just don’t want to be bothered this time around.